Balor 02/11/20 4:30 PM I am not dating, or sleeping or even seeing anyone
Jumpher_Wi 02/11/20 4:44 PM Balor, it's the difference between
a fuck thing and something more serious. Which do
you want?
Balor 02/11/20 4:45 PM well this isn't a fuck thing obviously
Jumpher_Wi 02/11/20 7:50 PM Balor, until very recently no one
was interfering and we still had
problems. You can't talk to me, I get too frustrated and try
to solve everything, there is the lying and
cheating and my inability to make you feel like I care.
Jumpher_Wi 02/11/20 7:50 PM I have taken care of my friends interferring.
It will not happen again because they
are no longer friends.
Balor 02/11/20 7:50 PM there is no lying or cheating anymore
Balor 02/11/20 7:51 PM ok
Jumpher_Wi 02/11/20 7:51 PM I'm not trying to doubt you, but I've
heard that more than once. Time will tell
me if that is true or not, not somebody with messages.
He tells Bev:
Bev
2/4/00 11:53 PM fine....but I'm the one who's sleeping with
you.....I AM the only one aren't I?
Balor 2/4/00
11:58 PM yes you are the only one
Balor 2/4/00
11:59 PM who else could there be?
And just 5 days before he's talking to Bev about their sex....
Balor 2/5/00
12:37 AM this has nothing at all to do with sex...would you get that out
of your head
Bev
2/5/00 12:37 AM how duz it NOT? that's the only thing we've
shared....other than this computer
Balor 2/5/00
12:38 AM if I wanted you for just sex don't you think I'd have you come
here all the time to fuck?
Bev
2/5/00 12:42 AM no....only when you have time for
me......which sometimes....that's what it feels
like :( so if it's not just SEX.......what else have we shared?
Balor 2/5/00
12:42 AM how many times have you been here and we have not had sex?
Bev
2/5/00 12:43 AM not many......
Balor 2/5/00
12:44 AM bullshit...I would say the majority of times you have been here
we haven't had sex
Bev
2/5/00 12:45 AM and most of those times it was about the computer
or cigs
Balor 2/5/00
12:45 AM or you just stopped by or we went somewhere etc etc
Bev
2/5/00 12:45 AM I'm not complaining about the amount of times.....I'm
not......I just want to FEEL wanted for more than that
Balor 2/5/00
12:46 AM and you are
And here he's telling her about the women he's telling me he's not seeing:
Balor 2/5/00 12:25 AM LOL....is
there? it was just a friend I have talked to since last september...her
name is Crystal
feel better now?
Bev 2/5/00 12:25
AM and why did you feel it needed to be kept from me?
Balor 2/5/00 12:25 AM it
was the point of privacy
Bev 2/5/00 12:26
AM sure....call it what you want.....it duzn't change it
Balor 2/5/00 12:26 AM what
do ya mean?
Bev 2/5/00 12:31
AM you can tell me you are at Paula's house (the one small part I DO know
about your life),someone you told me before that you were in love with....but
you feel you need to keep 'private', a convo in a locked room that you
didn't bother telling me about....led me to think you were cruising rooms.....
Bev 2/5/00 1:08
AM so......tell me.......is there ANYTHING you can tell me that you
know I would've wanted to know about......that you didn't for whatever
reason? so we can start with TOTAL HONESTY??..........cuz I know there's
stuff you haven't told me that, to have trust....I have to know
Bev 2/5/00 1:09
AM think about it first k?
Bev 2/5/00 1:09
AM don't just pop up with a quick no.......really think on that one?
please?
Balor 2/5/00 1:09 AM
nothin off hand why? I have been invited to 3 different states
Bev 2/5/00 1:10
AM oh? and are you going ?
Balor 2/5/00 1:10 AM
naaa....no reason too
Bev 2/5/00 1:10
AM why's that?
Balor 2/5/00 1:11 AM
the only place I would consider going is Colorado
Bev 2/5/00 1:11
AM because of who's there or what's there?
Balor 2/5/00 1:12 AM
I friend of mine lives there...
Bev 2/5/00 1:12
AM a new friend? what were the other states?....I assume Colorado
was one of them ? :)
Balor 2/5/00 1:13 AM
Colorado, Arizona and Virginia
Bev 2/5/00 1:14
AM I take it all these invites were from women on the internet that
you've 'met' online?
Balor 2/5/00 1:19 AM
there is one girl I would say yes to if she asked
Bev 2/5/00 1:19
AM oh yeah ? she's not one of the 'three' ?
Balor 2/5/00 1:20 AM
no...there hasn't been an invite
Bev 2/5/00 1:20
AM oh right :) gotcha :)where is she?
Balor 2/5/00 1:20 AM
New York
Bev 2/5/00 1:21
AM oh wow.....long ways.....what's her name? or is it Chrystal?
Balor 2/5/00 1:21 AM
nope...Debbie
Bev 2/5/00 1:26
AM ok :) see I'm not going ballistic on you am I? and NO i'm not
a volcano waiting to explode...:) I'm ok with this.....it's understandable.....I've
flirted online this
whole time and have been asked out even....:)do they know you are kinda
seeing someone?
Balor 2/5/00 1:27 AM
no one asked
Bev 2/5/00 1:29
AM well.....ok......if they had asked if you were seeing someone
or had a girlfriend.....what would you have said? knowing you were being
'picked up' in a way ?
Balor 2/5/00 1:29 AM
I don't know really
Bev 2/5/00 2:19
AM slowin down yet?
Balor 2/5/00 2:19 AM
a tad
Bev 2/5/00 2:20
AM all women right? :) hehe
Balor 2/5/00 2:20 AM
I don't talk to guys
Bev 2/5/00 2:21
AM LOL.....ok :) hehe
Bev 2/13/00 7:39 PM
so what else did you do last night?
Balor 2/13/00 7:39 PM that
was it
Bev 2/13/00 7:40 PM
you weren't at your computer tho
Balor 2/13/00 7:40 PM I wasn't
home
Bev 2/13/00 7:41 PM
so you did do something else
Balor 2/13/00 7:41 PM I told
ya I went and sat in a hot tub
Bev 2/13/00 7:42 PM
someone you don't know you go to a hot tub with all night and I'm not good
enuf to even leave your house except for business stuff....sure this makes
me feel real good
going to the store....bye
Balor 2/13/00 7:45 PM what???
I was tellin my friend about my back and she offered her hot tub cause
I am losing feeling in my left shoulder blade...thought the heat would
help
Bev 2/13/00 10:45 PM
HER hottub....in portland? wasn't that
nice....you can rent one for an hour HERE for 10bucks, so you spent
the night there too I suppose.............
Bev 2/13/00 10:45 PM
and the fact that you weren't OPEN and put up a wall ABOUT what you did
and where you were....that makes it worse.....that's NOT being HONEST and
OPEN with me.....now you are on EXTENDED AWAY.....is that for me? or are
you gone again? Sorry...but I just can't handle not knowing what the truth
is or
isn't.....been there done that
Balor 2/13/00 10:46 PM no it's
not for you.....My friend didn't come from Portland Saturday Instead I
went to a friends in Eugene at around 9pm and got home about midnight
Balor 2/13/00 11:16 PM Joanna I've
known her for about 7 months
Bev 2/13/00 11:18 PM
just a friend or did she used to be something more?
Balor 2/13/00 11:18 PM nop...just
a friend...was the roommate of an ex of mine
Balor 2/13/00 11:26 PM she is also
the one that gets killer deals cause she works with the Execs at Sony...And
before you ask.....it was a strictly social visit no hanky panky
Bev 2/14/00 6:04 PM
you must be spendin most of the day, other than cleanin, online with Debbie
huh?
Balor 2/14/00 6:05 PM kinda
:)
Bev 2/14/00 6:08 PM
hmm
Bev 2/14/00 6:11 PM
probly all you wanna do huh?
Jumpher: Sometime in Feb, he spent a lot of time and money on gifts
for her
jacqui_88: he did
jacqui_88: I don't know what to tell you... I know he had a special
one that he talked to,, but I never asked her name
rubyfruit89: girls from his town
rubyfruit89: he used to be online all the time, now never
Jumpher: Paula, Jo, Jennifer, Stephanie, Heather, Teresa, Crystal
rubyfruit89: heather
rubyfruit89: i had called him many a time at work