Here is the proof he was lying to me in November when he was upset with me for leaving Oregon early.

Bev        5/14/00  8:56 PM  oh geez.....I saw the handcuffs.....when you were here in Nov.....were you the one
he went and picked up at the airport with Paula and her husband at 11:30??

Morrigan   5/14/00  8:56 PM  Yes

Morrigan   5/14/00  8:57 PM  Y was he with you before?

Bev        5/14/00  8:58 PM  that was the first night I met him.....and he told me it was an ex g/f who invited
herself even tho he told her not to come....that she was 'crazy'.......no problem about the believing you.....I've
been there done that....men trying to make others think I'm crazy

Bev        5/14/00  9:00 PM  LOL....he said it was like a war zone the whole time you were there
LOL....fighting....carring on.....that he finally got you to leave early and then he called me.....GEEZ.....LOL

Morrigan   5/14/00  9:00 PM  We fought before I got there because I had contacted another ex and asked her
questions. He was pissed.  I told him I'd stay at a hotel, he said no, I was going to staywith him because that
was what he had planned and wanted.  He said he wanted to see me even if he was mad about it.  Told me
he wanted to work everything out because he realized that he really loved me.

Bev        5/14/00  9:02 PM  the bastard.....I HATE it when they play with your MIND like that!! :(
 

And more about how he tried to lie to me, even after he was cold busted.  Notice how he picks and chooses what to answer...

Jumpher wrote:

> You know, you are some piece of work *LOL*.  You can't admit you lied even when it's in black and white in front of you in your own words.
>
> Hell, you met Bev the NIGHT I landed in Oregon, left her house to come get me.

That's funny I was at the Double tree before we came to pick you up.

> Told her you kicked me out *LOL* when I left early.  Started fucking her the night I left, were still fucking her when you asked Bri if she thought I would talk to you.  Hell, you use the dildo you bought for me with her, and then had the nerve to bring it here? *LOL*  You are too funny!!
>
> You went out with SD when  you were promising me you weren't doing that, one date is still one date.  On Valentine's Day, Bev had you a present, you were upset you didn't even have a card, and you sent me an ecard, but only as an after thought.

Ha, nobody got me shit for Valentine's Day. Oh yeah Bev got me a card that I received weeks later.

> You spent all day working on Debbie's animation AND send her flowers and then she dumped you like Deanna did.

Who's Deanna?

>
>
> You lied about where you were when you came here, a lie you are STILL maintaining.  Like I said Balor, you have become just what you swear you hate, a lier and a cheat!  Any fool can read the dates on the transcripts below and see that you were lying not only to me but to alot of other women as well.
>
Your shoulder was never hurt, you used it as an excuse to climb into bed with Jo and tried to get Bev to as well.

Unfortunaetly, my shoulder was killing me.

> Balor, I once told you, you have few secrets from me, I was wrong in a sense, you had a lot, but you've got more from yourself.  Why you would go to so much trouble to keep me in this circle I do not know or understand, what I do know is you used me.  You started with WI begging her to come and spending endless hours on the phone with her from the beginning, even when you were asking me to move.
>
> Soon now all this will be catagorized by date and put up on a web page, feel free to stop by and see how much you have lied.  You can't tell someone you want to work it out with them and at the same time try to pick someone up.  You can continue to say what you will about me, too many know now that it's not true, and those who don't, it doesn't matter, the proof as they say, is in your own words.

Put one word about me on a web page and I will sue you for slandor. That house and car of your will be mine.
 

Subject: Re: *LOL*
Date:  Tue, 23 May 2000 14:16:17 -0500
From:   Jumpher <>
To: Balor
 References:  1 , 2

It's only slander Balor if it isn't true, but, it is.  I'm over 21 and my parents are responsible for nothing, even in backward Louisiana.

Crusade?  You are not going to sit there and lie over and over and over to me when I know the truth.  Too many times you've done that.  You are so delusional that you don't even know the truth anymore?  You sat there lying to me, lying toBev, lying to Debbie, hell, lying to everyone.  I was made to feel like I was an idiot because I felt like something wasn't right, you sat here on my sofa, looking me in the eye and swore up and down that you were being honest with me.  I hate more than anything else in the world to be lied to.  If you want out, stand up like a man and get the fuck out, but don't sit there like some kind of
worm telling me you love me while fucking everything that moves.

Hell Balor, you can't even admit you lied.  I told you, I'd drop it if you admitted you lied and explained to me why it was you had to play this head game with me.

Balor wrote:

> As I said before I got a card...there was no gift. And I can sue you for slandor course as everything you use is in your parents name they may end up being responsible for your debt as well. Why can't you just drop it...it's over and done with. Or do you feel you need to go on some worthless crusade?
>
 Oh and I can sure you for slandor. Check your laws.
>
 Jumpher wrote:
>
>  Put one word about me on a web page and I will sue you for slandor. That house and car of your will be mine.
> >
>  Too bad the only thing I own is a cat, 2 dogs and 2 kids.  Which do you want?  Or do you want all?  My parents own everything.  And you can't sue me for slander *LOL*  it's the truth!
> >
> > And as for Valentine's Day:
> >
> > Balor      2/14/00  6:40 PM  cool
> > Bev        2/14/00  6:45 PM  i'll drop off your gift on my way out
> > Balor      2/14/00  6:46 PM  why did you get me something? now I feel bad cause I can't afford squat
> > Bev        2/14/00  6:47 PM  I'll just leave it by your gate or something
> > Bev        2/14/00  10:08 PM you have a gift from me here and all sorts of shit being sent to you all the time from                    Debbie......what have I got?
> > Balor      2/14/00  10:09 PM check your email
> > Bev        2/14/00  10:20 PM thanks, and yes I'm crying......and how many times do I have to say....it duzn't have to COST a lot or ANY money.....I don't EXPECT that!!!! and how can my day get any better....it's GONE......this card is nice I just wish you had done what you implied you were going to do when you were doing Debbie's thing.....which....by the way....didn't cost ANY money.......
> > Balor      2/14/00  10:28 PM sorry I have had my head up my ass about stuff
> > Bev        2/14/00  10:29 PM I would love to go out with you and feel special and have fun with you.....but I don't believe it's ever going to happen......even since we've had a better understanding.....and that makes me even more sad cuz all I wanted
was to have some REAL FUN, the kind where I feel special and really wanted, not like I FORCED you to....that just ruins it!!
> > Balor      2/14/00  10:30 PM I know that.....when I ask it's cause I want to
> > Bev        2/14/00  10:30 PM and why is that? you haven't had your head up your ass when it comes to being sweet to Debbie ?......I'm sure even across the country she is feeling totally close to you.....and here I am 8 blocks away and we couldn't be more far apart
> > Balor      2/14/00  10:31 PM I know :(
> > Bev        2/14/00  10:33 PM ok.....and here's Valentine's day come and gone and I have to poor my heart out to you to get an ecard....and that's NOT why I did it.....I knew if I got one cuz of letting you know how I felt....it wouldn't be the same
> >
> > Bev        2/15/00  8:31 PM  yeah it is.......:(  shoulda sent me the flowers......:)
> > Balor      2/15/00  8:31 PM  definately
 

> > How can you argue with your own words??????